Wedding Day Blues Buyer s Remorse

Wedding Day Blues Buyer s Remorse When the average middle class person spend several thousand dollars on an event that can not or can not afford? Planning is an expensive wedding to prepare suitable for someone who is barely cope and survive in a tight, modest income? Many people have asked my opinion on the arrow in the cost of weddings and receptions and are confused about what to do. From what I saw from my twenty years of career as a wedding photographer, most people feel compelled to fund and provide a day of marriage and traditional family friends.It spent years selling the American dream and was very part of the day of the wedding hype and promotions? mine is at stake there. However, the marriage business is now part of my past. Looking back, I can see the whole image a little 'more clearly (even if there are so many different aspects to be considered). On behalf of future generations, I want to see expensive traditional marriage as we know it today, becoming a "thing of the past." I say this because the average person struggles financially, and traditional weddings are a huge financial burden for those who feel forced to finance them.To be honest, I think that young couples would be better if the money spent on the enormous and expensive wedding day has a greater place to practice things. Let's face it, most young couples before marriage, financial difficulties. Many married couples are still in school or have just graduated with huge student loans to pay, and most often they are linked with small children to change approach to speak.As wedding photographer, I saw a lot of pain and stress for all participants. Marriages may be "warm and fuzzy", if the spouses and families of the parties married (and friends) were perfect angels and divorce was taboo! But today? S society, conflicts between family members is at its highest level. Unfortunately, the family wedding in May stain memories.In today's society, where money is short and wants are extreme, how can a person feel good about the whole affair, after all is said and done? Believe me, most of the time, the average person has shown the "buyer remorse" when the wedding album is complete. Food for thought! (Revised 2/14/2006) Debbie Jensen, graphic designer and photographer